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Cyberbullying & Sexting: Expectations for School Principals

Posted by on September 3, 2010

“Principals can’t police the Internet all night and all weekend.” I hear this a lot from school administrators. Parents, however, often have a different (and unrealistic) perspective on the matter. My take is that school administrators cannot be expected to police the Internet all night and all weekend.  Parents should also not view school administrators as the […]

Gunman at TN School: Do You Want Police or a Climate Survey?

Posted by on August 31, 2010

A 62-year-old gunman pointed a .380 semi-automatic gun in a Tennessee Principal’s face yesterday. The School Resource Officer (SRO) drew her gun and shielded the Principal’s body with her own.  The principal, Melanie Riden, was able to flee the area. The SRO, Sheriff’s Deputy Carolyn Gudger, lured the gunman into the  empty high school cafeteria — a more contained […]

Pipe Bombs & Shooting Threats: Violence or Incivil Behavior?

Posted by on August 29, 2010

High-profile school security incidents this week included: A pipe bomb disabled at a Los Angeles school. A teen arrested for a mass schooting plot at a school.  Texas schools on the Mexican border preparing for stray bullets from Mexican drug cartel wars. Is this violence?  Or is it a manifestation of bullying, harassment, and “incivil” […]

What Constitutes Comprehensive School Safety Policies, Programs, and Funding?

Posted by on August 15, 2010

The “bullying summit” held by the U.S. Department of Education this past week drew attention, praise, opposition, and spirited debate depending upon who you talked with about it.    As legislators, bureaucrats, educators, media and others jump on the “bullying bandwagon,” what constitutes a more comprehensive and balanced school safety plan? I revisited my July 9, 2009, […]

Why Parents Believe Educators Are Ignoring Bullying

Posted by on May 19, 2010

Does your child stop a negative behavior after the first and only time you tell him or her not to do something?  Or do you need to revisit certain misbehavior, address issues more than once, etc.? For most parents, at some point they have to discuss a particular misbehavior more than once over a period of time.  This […]

Bullying: Parent or School Responsibility?

Posted by on April 1, 2010

Who is ultimately responsible for school bullying – parents, schools, the victims? CNN’s Rick Sanchez and I had a lengthy on-air discussion yesterday afternoon on bullying, the roles of teachers and parents, who is responsible when a bullied teen commits suicide, and what parents can do to support their children who may be bullied or […]

School Anti-Bullying Laws Are The Wrong Approach

Posted by on March 31, 2010

School anti-bullying laws ‘sound good and feel good, but they provide little-to-no new resources to educators. High-profile bullying incidents, including a number resulting in victim suicides, have fueled calls for more state and federal anti-bullying laws.  The latest school bullying case in Massachusetts resulted in the death of 15-year-old Phoebe Prince and criminal charges against nine teens.  […]